Closing Up Shop

I’ve had a few friends here and there ask me recently why I stopped updating this little side blog.  I wanted to put one last entry up with an explanation.  While I had a grand old time creating a new look and blog, at the end of the day I have too many pots cooking on my stovetop.

And to post here when I have so many other posts I need to do for work, well it just wasn’t happening long term.  Especially when I started to see some (albeit minor) traffic here and thought, why am I sending traffic somewhere other than my main business site?

I know, I know.  So annoying.  And so many of you told me that you loved having personal ad-free blogs.  I love those blogs.  But the reality is, it’s just too much for me.  For now anyway.

That said, I really enjoyed finally having some freedom beyond product reviews!  So because of that, I’ve decided to fold any personal posts into Mommies with Style.  I’ve created a new category for Whitney’s Personal Blog that will probably only get read by my Mom, but at least leaves the door open to my posting beyond products.

So if you’re wondering what’s up, that’s the long and short of it.  I don’t think I’ll be back here but who knows – clearly I change my mind as often as I pour myself a glass of wine, so…

Remembering Loved Ones Who Are No Longer with Us

These Iris (the purple flowers) are in my back yard right now.  I snapped this photo this week. They only bloom once a year and they don’t last more than a few days once they’ve bloomed.  But they are beautiful and each year I admire them for the few days they are in bloom and think fondly of my grandmother who died over 12 years ago.  Because these flowers once belonged to her.

The Iris weren’t of any significant importance to her but she had them in one of the places she lived before she died.  My aunt inherited them and then when she moved from her own house, we planted them in my back yard, where they’ve been for almost ten years.

I just love the annual reminder they provide me with of my grandmother.  I love that when I see them each year, I smile and remember some moment with her and I imagine she’s up in heaven giving everyone some holy hell in only the way she could while she was alive.

Do you have something like this that reminds you of someone in your life who is no longer with you?  I love the idea of planting a tree or flower to remember all of our loved ones who have gone.

My First CSA Pickup

How much do I already love my CSA?  Apparently they will be emailing us weekly with a list of what we’ll be picking up several days in advance.  I got my first notice on Friday for this afternoon’s pick up.   This is what will be in this week’s half-share:

1 Bag Popcorn – Certified Organic

1 Head Bok Choy – Certified Organic

1 Bunch Red Scallions – Certified Organic

1 Bunch Rhubarb – Certified Organic

1 Bunch Asparagus – Certified Organic

Part of me was like, oh God, what am I going to do with some of these things?  The other part of me is excited to experiment and try things out!  It’s so helpful to get the note days before too.  I was already grocery shopping and picked up all the ingredients for making this Rhubarb-Strawberry Crisp by Emeril to make for the upcoming weekend.

Not quite sure what to do with the Bok Choy or the Radishes.  I was reading one blog online that suggested frying up the radishes with butter & that they are delicious so we’ll try that and see how it goes.  Anyone has a good idea for what to do with the Bok Choy and I’m opening to hearing it!  I was thinking about doing this Grilled Tofu with Steamed Bok Choy but not sure the kids will eat it.  (They’ll eat Tofu but it has to be mixed into something else in a creative way.)

I’ll be sure to share photos of my attempts!  I’m kind of excited for the summer and the chance to try different recipes.  I also did a fruit share but that doesn’t start for a few more weeks.

 

Two Brothers on Marriage.

Overheard from the other room:

Nate:  Cole, who are you going to marry?

Cole:  Can I marry you?

Nate:  No!  You can’t marry me!  I’m a boy!  You have to marry a girl.

Cole:  Well… who are you going to marry?

Nate:  *ponders*  I’m not really sure yet.  I have to think about it.

Cole:  Me too.  I have to think about it too.

Nate:  Maybe you won’t have to marry anyone.  Maybe you’ll blow up and you won’t have to get married.

Cole:  That would be funny.  Maybe you’ll blow up too!

Web Traffic, Comments & Other Facets of Owning a Blog I Find Curious

Yesterday, I posted some quick thoughts about my reaction to the death of Bin Laden in regard to telling my children.  I had two comments here on the blog although to be fair, I should note that I had several comments on my Mommies with Style Facebook page about it.

In terms of general comments, I didn’t have very many compared to some of the other posts I’ve put up here but it was the most traffic I had in one single day by threefold. At least.  I had to double check my Google Analytics twice because I thought it was a mistake.  I would have never know had I not checked my stats.

I find that totally curious.  Does that mean people came over, agreed and had nothing to say so they left?  Or they came, disagreed but didn’t want to comment and left?  (I highly doubt that – usually if people disagree they are willing to tell you!)

Maybe it’s the Sociology major in me but I find the  business of web traffic, comments and what gets people to come out of their shell really fascinating.

In regard to yesterday, my guess too is that there was so much out there about Bin Laden that people were just oversaturated with information online.  There’s only so many times you can comment.

Still, I’m taking it on as a challenge to start experimenting and see what drives traffic but no comments, and what topics cause a higher ratio of visits to comments.

Bin Laden, 9.11 & Talking About Bad Things in the World with my Kids

It wasn’t long after booting up this morning that I learned of Bin Laden’s murder via Twitter.  I immediately turned on the tv to hear the details as I was getting the kids ready for the day.

At 7, Nate has become especially inquisitive recently about current events and things happening in the world.  We’re pretty open here and I’d rather be honest than shelter my kids from the truth so I knew there would be some questions this morning.

“Mom, who was killed?”

“Why are people cheering?”

And after five minutes of my 7-year-old version of recounting the tale of 9-11, I got:

“Where the people on the planes killed?  Were their kids on the planes?”

The world’s a scary place and there’s a lot of bad things that I really wish I could shelter my kids from.  I hate that I had to promise my kids that they are safe on the planes now because we have special people on each plane protecting us (they liked that one) when silently I knew that I can never promise 100% protection from the unexpected, despite heightened security measures.

And I hate that people were cheering last night and this morning.  While I’m beyond glad Bin Laden got what he was long due, it somehow seems wrong to be whooping it up because someone was murdered.

 

There’s No Place Like Home

Better Late Than Never: #Mom2Summit Mini Recap w/Photos

I’m feeling a little day late and a dollar short typing up this Mom 2.0 Summit recap a week after the conference ended.  While the conference feels like ages ago to me at this point, I’ve been on a crazy schedule since returning from New Orleans.

I haven’t had a ton of chances to read everyone’s recaps but I’ve been doing some skimming of various comments via Twitter and my web browser on my iPhone.  (There’s nothing more torturous than being on a painfully long road trip and not being able to catch up with work because the only Internet connection you have is via phone.)

So maybe when I have more time, I’ll expand a bit more about the weekend.  But for now I’ll share some disorganized thoughts and photos.

I will say this.  I can’t wait for Mom 2.0 in Miami next year – I’m so there.  While there were certain improvements that could have been made this year (the conference schedule being so confusing running late the entire time; the Ritz having so many issues with the Internet & other tech issues), overall, I found the conference to be a fabulous experience.  It was all of the intimacy I always wanted but never got with BlogHer.  I learned, I networked, I got to have drinks and beignets with some of my amazing bloggy friends.  Really don’t see how I can ask for much more.

Highlights included the Entrepreneurial Strategy in a Post-Recession, Post-Web 2.0 World with Stephanie Smirnov, Erica Diamond and Shelly Kramer and Gabrielle Blair (these women’s accomplishments are just amazing and humbling) and the Media Mash-up with one of my favorite bloggers, Janice Croze from 5 Minutes for Mom.  (Loved how hands on she is and how she gave us real tips on how to improve our photos)

I’ll leave you guys with some photos and maybe if I have some free time I’ll expand a bit more but for now:

At a Microsoft cocktail party: Ciaran from Momfluential, me, Colleen from Classy Mommy. Love these girls. Wish Ciaran lived closer so I could see her more!

Zatarain's Cocktail Party: I'm obsessed with Redfish and wish I could gave it in Philly! Delish.

At the Microsoft Cocktail Party - some Philly girls: Colleen from Classy Mommy, Me, @Cecilyk, @bossy

With Amy from Teach Mama & Leticia from Tech Savvy Mama. Two amazing bloggers & women.

Truvia Cocktail Party with Erica Diamond from Women on the Fence - love her

Lots of nonsense in the movie booth at the Zatarain's Party: Me, Audrey from Mom Generations, Colleen from Classy Mommy, Lindsey from Suburban Turmoil

Zatarain's Cocktail Party: Me & my Boston buddy Jodi from Mom's Favorite Stuff

Yummy dessert at the Almond Accents Lunch

Beautiful run with the Mom 2.0 runners (although we took a wrong turn & ended up doing 3.5!)

One of photos I took on the DSLR walk & lecture in the French Quarter. I'll share more later.

What’s Your Niche? Specializing as a Mommy Blogger Becoming Critical to Success? More from Mom 2.0.

Recently, I attended Mom2.0 Summit, a conference for Mom bloggers. I have lots of photos and lots to share and of course we’re in the midst of spring break here and I’m completely behind on work.  I hope to bring you all some fun posts and photos over the course of the next few weeks but it’s definitely going to be a slow process as I dig out of the rockslide cave that is my inbox.

One of the common themes in the panels at Mom 2.0 Summit was specialization or discussions on each of our niches.  With 3.7 million “Mommy blogs” online, it’s no longer a key to success just to be a general Mommy blogger.

Having something that’s you – something that makes your blog unique – is a critical piece to success in the Mom blogsophere these days, according to many of the panelists at the conference.  I find it both funny and fascinating at the same time because I remember a time when just being a “Mom blog” was considered a niche.  These days we have to get more defined if we want to stick out.

A common theme at the conference was that in finding that one specific area of expertise, you will increase your appeal to the brands.  General Mom blogs are a dime a dozen.

But all of this really struck a chord with me.  Because while I consider myself as specializing in a few things that I personally find interesting, I have a lot of that “generic” stuff going on over at Mommies with Style.  I’m a regular old Mom with interests in a lot of different areas.  So is it okay to be that generic Mommy blogger?  What if you’re just plain vanilla, mainstream Mom and like a little of everything?

Can there really not be a successful “general Mommy blogger” anymore?

I wonder.  I’m starting to think that the answer is no, there can’t be, but at the same time I hope it’s okay to find your niche but at least feel comfortable going out of your niche now and again to explore other areas of interest.

Bourbon Street & New Orleans By Day

Not what I remembered. Then again, it was over 11 years ago that I was here and I’m not sure I saw Bourbon Street in the light of day the last time I was here. 

That said, I took a lovely run by the waterfront this morning and saw some beautiful sights.  More to come – as I’m down here for a Mom blogging conference, the Wifi’s been terrible. (Imagine 450 Moms all trying to blog, tweet and email from the same network…)